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Tigers & Teddies Live! Rupture & Repair

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Join us for the last event in summer series Tigers & Teddies Live!  Gary Robinson will be showing off the last of his bow ties, in the role of chair.  Dr. Suzanne Zeedyk will be back, as author of the book that sparked the series, ‘Sabre Tooth Tigers & Teddy Bears: The connected baby guide to attachment’.  This week’s topic gives us a hint of the topics to come in future books, as we explore the cycle of Rupture and Repair..

We’ll meet Dr. Claudia Gold, our first international guest in this series.  Based in Boston, USA, Claudia is a paediatrician steeped in the importance of relationships and listening.  She argues in all her work for the need for professionals to listen to parents, supporting them so that they are better placed to listen to their children, right from birth.  Claudia is the author of four books, which you can read about on her website: https://www.claudiamgoldmd.com

It is her most recent book, just published in Summer 2020, that brings her as a guest to our series.  Her newest book, The Power of Discord, is all about the Rupture-Repair Cycle, about which Suzanne frequently speaks in her own work.  Co-authored with leading infant theorist, Dr. Edward Tronick, the book bring a message that is hugely comforting to all parents.  It explores the large body of research confirming that discord within parent-child relationships is common.  You do not have to be a perfect parent!  In fact, it is moments of discord that drive the development of trust within a relationship – as long as the discord leads to resolution.   Suzanne is known for putting that idea this way:  Making up is more important than messing up.

Suzanne is really excited to be able to share Claudia’s wisdom with a wider public.  We’ll be amongst the first groups celebrating her new book in the UK!  So we might get you all to bring along another glass to toast its success!  We started the series with a toast, so why not end it that way!

Cost:  FREE

Registration Link:

https://us02web.zoom.us/webinar/register/WN__1DjrJaOSGS13OWkhmsSRw

Tigers & Teddies Live! Transforming Criminal Justice

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Join us for the next on-line event in our summer series Tigers & Teddies Live! It will be chaired by Gary Robinson, wearing another of his famous bow ties.  This week casts a light on the power of kindness.  As those of you who have been joining us every week know, the series came out of the interest in our new book ‘Sabre Tooth Tigers and Teddy Bears’, published in May 2020 and authored by Dr. Suzanne Zeedyk.

In this episode, we’ll meet two of the people whose stories are told in the book:  Kevin Neary and Iain Smith.  Kevin’s story traces the consequences of a childhood filled with chaos, fear and misunderstanding by adults.  We hear how behaviour policies at school, accompanied by exclusion and rejection, helped to create a future that found Kevin in prison.  Iain’s story offers us an alternative perspective: a defence lawyer who comes to understand that he has not been curious enough about the painful childhoods of his clients.  We hear in both these stories how discovering the science of trauma and adverse childhood experiences (ACEs) changed their perspectives about the leadership they could offer to the criminal justice system and beyond.

Together, Kevin and Iain’s stories push us to think about how kindness transforms children’s lives and children’s futures.  This promises to be a conversation you will not forget.

Cost:  FREE

Registration Link:

https://us02web.zoom.us/webinar/register/WN_M7FCyqrGQJaLtGtJlDukww

Tigers & Teddies Live! Early Years After Lockdown

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Join us for the next on-line event in our summer series Tigers & Teddies Live! It will be chaired by Gary Robinson, who is making a reputation with his bow ties, and by Dr. Suzanne Zeedyk, author of the book who kicked off the series.  This week provides practical insights about how to keep up connection for our youngest children, as they return to professional childcare settings following months of COVID lockdown.

We will meet Pauline Scott, whose story as a nursery owner  is told in the book.  Pauline and her team have established a set of three nurseries in Glasgow, all of which are steeped in attachment-led practice.  Lullaby Lane Nurseries place relationships, cuddles and emotional attunement at the core of their ethos.  They do not intend to change any of this in the face of COVID.  In this episode, we will learn why they feel so confident in this decision and how they intend to put it into practice.

The guests will also include one of the managers and one of the parents from the Lullaby Lane family.  Their insights, alongside those of Pauline, will provoke lots of thought about how we can continue to create connection even in a time of distancing.  The biggest insight may be the consequences that lie ahead for our children if we grown-ups fail to stay focused on this emotional responsibility to our children.

 

Cost:  FREE

Registration Link:

https://tinyurl.com/ybg5cv8d

Tigers & Teddies Live! Boarding School Survivors

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Join us for the next on-line event in our summer series Tigers & Teddies Live! It will be chaired by Gary Robinson, wearing one of his famous bow ties, and Dr. Suzanne Zeedyk, author of the book that sparked the series, ‘Sabre Tooth Tigers & Teddy Bears: The connected baby guide to attachment’, published earlier in May 2020.  This week’s topic is Boarding School Survivors..

We’ll meet Tony Gammidge, who was also with us for the Launch of the book, and whose story is told in the book.  This episode will give Tony a chance to share more insights about the ways he believes his experience of boarding school left lifelong emotional wounds.  He will help us to think about the large number of people in the UK who have been similarly affected by boarding school – including a large proportion of politicians currently leading the UK Westminster government.  Tony will reflect on the ways in which art has helped in his recovery, including his most recent animated film, called “Norton Grim and Me”.  You can watch that film on this link, if you are eager to get a head start on this conversation!  https://vimeo.com/345490289

Tony will be joined by John Fulton, an art psychotherapist who worked with the NHS for many years.  John will deepen our understanding of why art is a powerful medium for healing.  The conversation between Tony and John will provide lots of stimulation for thinking not only about recovery from fundamental life challenges, like boarding school, but also for preventing harm in the first place.  Our society needs these insights as we exit the unexpected challenge we have been facing in COVID lockdown.

We look forward to welcoming you to this fascinating conversation on the power of connection.

Cost:  FREE

Registration Link:

https://us02web.zoom.us/webinar/register/WN_wJC2-ttmR3yDYqCz5X_tPA